My sister-of-choice,
pocketnaomi, is still looking for a
housemate: the person she was expecting to move in last week backed out
at the last minute.
See her post on DW (or here on LJ) for details.
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My sister-of-choice,
pocketnaomi, is still looking for a
housemate: the person she was expecting to move in last week backed out
at the last minute.
See her post on DW (or here on LJ) for details.
Two signals to boost tonight:
The first is my sister-of-choice
pocketnaomi, who posts Roommate wanted:
Shoreline, WA. The room is just as delightful as she describes it.
The second is
ysabetwordsmith, whose Poetry
Fishbowl is Open on the theme of "influential women."
The CTO of $T called me at the originally-scheduled time on Wednesday, not the rescheduled time on Tuesday -- by that time I'd already made my decision. Thursday I went in and signed the paperwork with $K for my contract job at $D. I start Monday the 15th. There are a couple of good perks from $K, including free access to SkillSoft courseware. (I think I also get that through my recently-renewed ACM membership.)
Even after only six months of "retirement", the thought of going back to work is somewhat scary. It's also rather surprising how few of the things on my list I got done. (Of course, "moving" was also on the list, and occupied an unexpectedly large fraction of my time. But still.)
I'll be at Orycon. The plan is to drive down after work (possibly after a short day) on Friday, and return Sunday night -- it's only a 3-hour drive, which makes it possible. I think I will have a concert, though I might have missed my window for that by not turning in the questionaire on time.
Of course, now that I know I'm going to have an income, I promptly went out and ordered a few things that I'd been waiting on. The first to arrive, because it was nearly instantaneous, was the download of Cat Faber's new CD, The King's Lute -- the physical copy will arrive soon. (You get the download, which includes the sheet music and lyrics, free with the CD.) You can get yours at her Bandcamp page. I highly recommend it -- Cat's a brilliant songwriter and a fine performer. This album is drawn from her recent "Alice Day" posts. It's hard to pick favorites here, but I think I'd have to go with "Cedarglass" and "Atheist's Anthem".
I really need to get a Bandcamp page up, don't I? Good project for tomorrow? Maybe.
I also pulled down a copy of Heather Dale's Perpetual Gift (which is free, as the title indicates, but I made a donation anyway).
Oh, and Janis Ian will be at the Triple Door in Seattle, Saturday, April 6th
The usual collection of links in the notes. Here: have a CPR ad, with zombies.
( raw notes )Cat Faber wrote the song, and Lookingglass Folk sang it at Conflikt. But nobody seems to be doing it -- yet.
pocketnaomi thinks it's time somebody
did. I'm boosting the signal. Check it out. Watch for more; we're
working on it.
At kshandra's suggestion, I'm signal-boosting amberdiceless's Open Letter to Annelies van den Belt, CEO of SUP, parent company of Livejournal.
Not that I expect it to do much good.
Daily Kos: Where's Your $50,000? From Alan Grayson. Mr. Grayson is a former Congressman from Florida, currently running for his old seat back. I really hope he makes it. We need people who will speak this kind of truth.
The Government Accountability Office (GAO) says that our Government has handed out $16 trillion to the banks.
Let me repeat that, in case you didn’t hear me the first time. The GAO says that our Government HAS HANDED OUT $16 TRILLION TO THE BANKS.
That little gem appears on Page 131 of GAO Report No. GAO-11-696. A report issued two months ago. A report that somehow seems to have eluded the attention of virtually every network, every major newspaper, and every news show.
How much is $16 trillion? That is an amount equal to or more than $50,000 for every man, woman and child in America. That’s more than every penny that every American earns in a year. That’s an amount equal to almost a third of our national net worth -- the value of every home, car, personal belonging, business, bank account, stock, bond, piece of land, book, tree, chandelier, and everything else anyone owns in America. That’s an amount greater than our entire national debt, accumulated over the course of two centuries.
A $16 trillion stack of dollar bills would reach all the way to the Moon. And back. Twice.
That’s enough to pay for Saturday mail delivery. For the next 5,000 years.
All of that money went from you and me to the banks. And we got nothing. Not even a toaster.
I have been patiently waiting to see whether this disclosure would provoke some kind of reaction. Answer: nope. Everyone seems much more interested in discussing whether or not they like the cut of Perry’s jib.
Whatever a jib may be.
In the next few weeks, I’m going to be writing more about this. But right now, I wanted to keep this really simple. Just give folks something to talk about when they’re standing next to the coffee maker.
The Government gave $16 trillion to the banks. And nobody else is talking about it. Think about it. Think about what that means.
Courage,
Alan Grayson
To put it another way, $16 trillion will buy enough gas to drive to Alpha Centauri and back. Twice.
Today's xkcd is screamingly funny, at least to anyone who knows the Banach–Tarski Theorem.
It's Cat Faber's idea:
You remember the Koran burning thing.
Well, I have an idea. What if we start a backfire (metaphorically)? Let's make September 11, 2010 "Stand Up For Religious Tolerance Day"
Everybody post something on religious tolerance.
That way we don't reward Koran burning trolls with attention, BUT we don't stay silent and let it look like we don't mind, or even agree.
If you think it's a good idea, please pass it on!
I do, so I did. See you Saturday.
I got this link via email from my mom. It appears to be fairly old, but worth mentioning because it's so slick. Basically a social engineering attack to get the verification code off your card.
LiveJournal's new sneaky trick -> LiveJournal's latest misguided attempt to make a quick buck. -> No Opt In, No Ads
What they're doing is redirecting links to outboundlink.me,
which adds an affiliate code and sends you back to, e.g. Amazon with the
affiliate bucks going to LJ. Sleazy, and both a privacy and a security
risk. Not to mention a violation of my copyright.
... So I now have, after much delay, an account on Dreamwidth (
mdlbear, of
course), though I haven't made use of it yet. I'm not going to abandon LJ
-- most of my friends are still here, and I have a permanent account. And
I'm not going to move my primary blog to DW; eventually they'll
both be cross-posted to from someplace completely under my
control, probably under steve.savitzky.net.
Normally I would have posted a "Wishful Wednesday" last week. I didn't. I did post about The Great Bedroom Makeover last Saturday. Well, it's still on for Saturday (and probably Sunday as well), starting around noonish.
I'll be making big pots of chili and rice, and probably some guacamole. I'm afraid it conflicts with Kanef's housefilk, but I really don't expect people to stay all evening.
Also, signal boost:
pocketnaomi's friend
jackien1968 is looking for a place to live in the East Bay.
Sign the PublicACTA Wellington Declaration! - Boing Boing
The PublicACTA activists have been meeting in Wellington, New Zealand -- site of the next round of negotiations on the secret Anti-Counterfeiting Trade Agreement -- drafting a declaration on how the next global copyright treaty should read, and how it should be negotiated.
The "Wellington Declaration" says that the world copyright treaties shouldn't be conducted behind closed doors in smoke-filled rooms, but rather in the full light of public participation at the United Nations, where copyright treaties are customarily made. The UN admits non-governmental organizations, journalists, and representatives from poor countries, while ACTA is only open to rich countries and lobbyists from powerful corporations.
Yes, I've signed it.
This post by
evilpuppy is simply appalling. Worse, much worse, than United Breaks
Guitars.
I might be 29 years old, I might have colored hair, and I might not be obviously disabled, but I am a legitimately disabled American citizen. Your airline had no right to treat me the way it did and your customer service supervisor was disturbingly rude to me in the face of my experience. I wasn't being unreasonable, I never swore, and I didn't raise my voice. I was trying my best to be polite and calm and I expected no less than the same courtesy in return. The fact that I didn't receive it and instead was made to feel as though I was just being lazy and irresponsible is beyond infuriating. I have to deal with Worker's Compensation and Disability about my age enough, the last thing I expected or needed was to have to deal with it from your airline when flying is already a painful enough experience.
(from foxipher,
and cleolinda
via technoshaman;
cleolinda links to a followup tweet @UnitedAirlines. We'll see.)
Meanwhile the probability that Colleen or I will be flying United anytime in the forseeable future has just gone from small to negligible.
"Obama is not a brown-skinned, anti-war socialist who gives away free healthcare. You're thinking of Jesus." - John Fugelsang
Christianity, Social Justice and Politics - a well-researched rant against the Religious Right, with bible quotes. (From Ravan's Rants - New Post at Another Ravan Perch.)
A couple of days ago I posted a link to
ysabetwordsmith's post on Loneliness and
Fraying Social Fabric.
She has since followed it up with Fighting Loneliness, Part 2: Very Basic Steps and Fighting Loneliness, Part 3: Friendship Tips for Introverts. Wow! I'm finding these incredibly useful.
It's hard for an introvert like me to learn how to function around people, especially when they were raised by introverts like my parents (Dad was, certainly. I'm not sure about Mom). And especially when they're shy and have learned to avoid people. All of the role models the media present us with are extroverts. At least all of the really conspicuous ones. Because, well... extroverts.
It occurs to me that if social interaction is anything like a language (either programming or human), the only way to learn it is to get a lot of practice. Programming languages are easy for me -- computers are patient, and I can practice programming any time I like. They're not likely to get upset at me when I make stupid mistakes, and I'm not likely to get upset at myself. And there are lots of useful manuals to read, to help learn computer languages.
There's a lot to read about interacting with people, too, but it's difficult for a novice to tell what's useful. And of course most of it is written by and for extroverts.
More on that later, perhaps; it needs a longer post, and it's getting late.
ysabetwordsmith has a good post titled Loneliness and
Fraying Social Fabric, that's a followup to
haikujaguar's
recent post on loneliness and how it spreads. Lots of good stuff there, and even
more in the comments.
She makes some good suggestions. "Restore our support of people who are doing the hard work of sustaining others."... "Practice and teach social skills." "Build the biggest, strongest social network that you can." But they're suggestions for someone like her who knows how to give support, teach social skills, build a social network, and use it effectively.
Trouble is, I'm on both sides of that social chasm. I'm one of those lonely people who never learned many of the social skills they needed -- not because my family was "subfunctional", but more because I've always found it easier to pull back from situations where I had no idea what I was doing. Since we started hanging out together, I've always let Colleen build and maintain the social network -- she has the skills for it.
And now, suddenly, I've been thrown into situations where I'm the one trying to give support, both physical support to Colleen, and emotional support to her and several of my other friends. While groping my way in the dark, having no idea what I'm doing, no idea what support if any is available. I'm learning, but it's slow. Please bear with me. Or something like that.
Not a bad day. A little odd in places. I'm still having muscle aches in my legs when I walk; I'm assuming this is mostly due to being out of shape.
Went to what was supposed to have been a meeting of some people from Kaiser's caregiver support group (on hold because the person running it retired last month). It's possible that I simply wasn't persistent enough about figuring out why nobody else was there. Plus I kept getting lost/making wrong turns on the way back to work. The whole experience was overlaid with a distinct feeling of being totally out of place. Somewhere out of my comfort zone, apparently.
On the plus side, I sent $5 to
pocketnaomi for the next
installment of the crowdfunded story she just started. Check it out -- it promises
to be a lot of fun.
Some good links. Some weird trivia posted
by
dejla. The Hubble Space Telescope Advent Calendar 2009 (from wcg). MakeHuman, a GPL program similar
to Poser; see the wikipedia article for links to some others.
Loneliness is Contagious/Causes Isolation (from haikujaguar) -- the general idea is that when you drive people away with your loneliness, they become that much more likely to become lonely themselves. No hint of what to do about it, of course.
I've already signal-boosted a couple of posts on grieving.
ETA: And I sold a CD on CDBaby!! Thanks, whoever it was!
More on grieving, from someone else who's been there.
dsmoen has made a good post on
grieving -- some people reading this may find it helpful.
My sister-of-choice, Naomi, needs help.
What would help most, of course, would be jobs for her and/or her partner
Callie (
cflute). But they also need to feed the kids and pay
the rent while they work on finding jobs.
I figure that instead of sending money to a couple of charities working to cure diseases we don't have yet, we can send it to our friends this year.
There's an email address in her post for PayPal, or you can email her for her snail-mail address. Even a little bit would be helpful.
Thanks in advance,
==steve
My friend
pocketnaomi had a dream of a friendly society
(read mutual-aid society, co-op, mutual benefit society) -- households
banding together to help one another out in the current unfriendly times.
Here's her original post, where she says:
I want to see what we can do with this. The filk community is the group I know, the people who already have a predisposition to help each other when someone truly needs it, to regard themselves as family, and to see with a bit longer an eye than most of modern economics. It also covers a wide cross-section of economic, geographical, and occupational ground.
The resulting community here on LJ is called
filk_friendly.
See you there, maybe?