It would help if I had someone to delegate to. Colleen's the one who's good at that, and she does find friends who can help, though almost all of them have lives and jobs of their own. I don't have a network of local friends I'd feel comfortable calling on, and trying to ask for help would only add to the stress.

I am getting the depression treated; it's very slow going and right now I have no idea whether it's working.

I guess the support group is more of a priority now than it appeared to be a couple of months ago when I first looked at them. I still don't know what it would do for me.