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  <pubDate>Sat, 09 Mar 2013 06:37:55 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Thankful Th... um, ok, Friday</title>
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  <description>&lt;p&gt; Today I am thankful for...
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; OUR HOUSE!  Well, ok, the bank&apos;s house, but it&apos;s ours as long as we
       keep paying them.  It closed today, and I have keys in my pocket.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; A fantastic real estate agent, Dave Reith, and mortgage broker, Kathryn
       Seymour of Evergreen Loans.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; My former coworkers at Disney.  The timing of my contract&apos;s ending,
       which kept me employed &lt;em&gt;exactly&lt;/em&gt; long enough for the house to
       close.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; A lender who &lt;em&gt;understands&lt;/em&gt; about how contracting works, and who
       let the loan go through anyway.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Overestimating the closing costs by $15K.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Colleen, Naomi, and our kids.
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Feeling at home.
  &lt;/li&gt;
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  <pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 06:10:11 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Wishful Thankful Furious Forgetful Friday</title>
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  <description>&lt;p&gt; It&apos;s Forgetful Friday, because I forgot Wishful Wednesday and Thankful
    Thursday.  We&apos;ll get to the Furious part later.  Before I forget again... 
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; ... I could really use a job in the Seattle area, that uses my skills,
    pays well, and will pay for relocation.  Or half a million dollars.  I
    can&apos;t afford to be picky, though I&apos;d greatly prefer the latter.  (And if
    wishes were horses, we&apos;d all be up to our necks in manure by now.) (And
    no, I &lt;em&gt;don&apos;t&lt;/em&gt; want my Mom to die and leave me the money; I
    &lt;em&gt;love&lt;/em&gt; my Mom, and you can take that damned monkey&apos;s paw and shove
    it up...)  But I&apos;m getting ahead of myself.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; I&apos;m thankful for...
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; My friends
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Colleen
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; An occasional sense of adventure (though mostly I&apos;m of Bilbo&apos;s opinion
       on the subject)
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; The difference in rent between San Jose and Seattle
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Being almost far enough out of middle age to retire
  &lt;/li&gt;
  &lt;li&gt; Good benefits
  &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt; I would grateful to the company that &lt;em&gt;manages&lt;/em&gt; those benefits, but
    that&apos;s where the Furious part comes in.  (I told you we&apos;d get to it.)
    Both my 401K and my defined-benefit pension plan are managed by the same
    company, AON Hewitt.  The part of Hewitt that manages the 401K also
    manages my other benefits; and apart from having one of the crappiest
    websites in the known universe I can usually get things done there.  (Part
    of the fury is about their recent redesign, which leaves me with no
    obvious way to find out what documentation they want for the stupid FSA.
    Another part is spending 10 minutes on the phone going through menus and
    listening to idiotic messages telling me that I could use the web, and by
    the way did I want to stay logged in?, only to get to the part where they
    tell me they closed for the weekend half an hour ago.)
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; That bit came &lt;em&gt;after&lt;/em&gt; finding out that the &lt;em&gt;other&lt;/em&gt; part of
    the company, the one that manages my pension, &lt;em&gt;has my social security
    number wrong.&lt;/em&gt;  Now they want me to mail them a copy of my card.
    Which I haven&apos;t seen for two decades.  So I&apos;ll have to apply for a new
    one.  For which I&apos;ll need either a birth certificate (which &lt;em&gt;might&lt;/em&gt;
    be in the stuff I got from Mom a dozen years ago), or a passport (which
    expired a year ago and &lt;em&gt;might&lt;/em&gt; be lost somewhere on my desk waiting
    for me to renew it).  
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; Furious doesn&apos;t BEGIN to cover it. 
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; This all happened between 2pm and 2:30; I am &lt;em&gt;still&lt;/em&gt; not really
    back to normal, eight hours and a glass of gin later.  Oh, and add an hour
    or two of something that felt a lot like depression, between 4 and 6.
    Probably &lt;em&gt;was&lt;/em&gt; depression, considering.  Ya think?
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