River: end of an era

[mdlbear]

Colleen is coming home Friday!

I should be excited and happy. Instead, I'm worried, depressed, a few things I can't identify, and totally unmotivated. We're having the bedroom steam-cleaned tomorrow afternoon, and a pair of hospital beds installed tomorrow evening. I'm still not entirely packed, and the bed is still assembled.

I understand some of it. I have no idea how much care Colleen is going to need. I'm stressed because I'm almost certainly not going to be able to go to work tomorrow morning -- I'll need to clean and vacuum the bedroom floors. And so on.

Also, we've had that bed for around a quarter-century, if I remember correctly. I built it myself. Colleen grieved over chaoswolf leaving the house -- I appear to be grieving our old bed. The YD just took the mattress up to her room. I'll be sleeping on an air mattress tonight. Our lives have changed, over the last few months; I have no idea what the new "normal" will be like -- it's change, and unknown, and it scares me.

Whatever the reason, I have a great deal to do by tomorrow noon, and I'm not doing it. Instead, I'm sitting here wingeing into my posting client.

Not a happy bear.

Comments

[spiritdancer]

Do you have a service coming in to do the carpet cleaning? If so, call them and see if you need to vacuum before they get there. The last time we had a professional cleaning done, we were told to not worry about the vacuuming, as their vacuum was stronger than anything we'd be able to get our hands on :-)

*hugs* change isn't always fun, even if it's necessary. And you WILL be getting Coleen back home, which will make you both happier in the long run!

[mdlbear]

Hmm. Just checked the email.

Apparently they don't need us to vacuum; we do have to get the bed and desk out of the room, though, if we expect them to clean the area underneath.