The high point of the weekend was Saturday evening when Colleen and I went
to the 35-year reunion of Columbae
House, the co-op house where I lived for a couple of years when I was
a grad student at Stanford. As it says in the history
Columbae is a student-run, Consensus-governed, Vegetarian cooperative
house located in the heart of the Stanford University campus and
dedicated to Social Change through Nonviolent Action.
It was an extraordinary group of people, at an extraordinary time. Lots
of the people I knew were there last night; many meetings and much
fantastic catch-up conversation. I was shy and geekish back then, even
more so than I am now; I think I had more good person-to-person
conversation in a couple of hours last night than in most months
when I was living there. I could have stayed and talked another week.
On the whole I think we look a lot like we did then, modulo grey hair and
wrinkles. We still think a lot like we did then, for the most
part. After dinner we sat together in a circle and shared our stories.
Fascinating. I found out later that I wasn't the only one who forgot to
mention their kids, but Colleen got a prominent mention along with the
fact that it was our 33rd engagement anniversary. A few people remembered
her from Alan Strain's Quaker meetings; she never came by the house
because we hadn't started hanging out together at that point.
After dessert we got back together to stand in a circle and sing along
with the Joan Baez recording of We Shall Overcome, and share
brief visions of the world as it ought to be.
Sang a short version of QV during dessert, though I don't think more than a handful heard
it. It just faded into the background, which is probably as it should
be. Handed out a few cards. Some people live surprisingly close to us;
San Francisco, Palo Alto, even San Jose. All these years...
We need to get connected again, and stay connected. Three and a half
decades later we're still standing, a circle of friends all singing the
same song.