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mdlbear: blue fractal bear with text "since 2002" (Default)
ags: thanks, birthday, travel Picture: turkey Music: Mongol birthday song, of course Mood: grateful Location: the

Today is my 79th birthday. I am thankful for...

  • Making it this far, alive and I suppose about as well as can be expected, for someone who doesn't really take good care of themself.
  • An uneventful flight to the US, without any of the problems at the border that I was worried about. NO thanks for apparently-current-limited back-of-seat power sockets.
  • Having remembered to bring extra-absorbent paper underwear. NO thanks for forgetting toenail clippers and a multitool, among other things.
  • Uber, Lyft, and Crown Limo.
  • A ride to my DOL (Department of Licensing) appointment, with good conversation.

NO thanks for mid-March snow -- isn't it almost spring now?

mdlbear: Wild turkey hen close-up (turkey)

Today I am thankful for...

  • Being in what the medical people I've spoken to lately say is reasonably good health for my age. My blood pressure has responded well to my latest prescription (10mg/day of lisinopril). But walking more than .75km hurts, and I am NOT thankful for that.
  • Ginger, garlic, chocolate, and coffee. And other tasty things too numerous to mention.
  • Free faxing with Dropbox.
  • My mail finally catching up with me. (Too late to prevent problems, but hopefully not too late to prevent disaster.)
  • My support groups.

mdlbear: Wild turkey hen close-up (turkey)

Today I am a record. I am also grateful for...

  • Still being alive. At this age that isn't necessarily a given.
  • Having gotten out of Amerika in time. (Hoping I'll be able to go back and visit. But that's not a given, either.)
  • Help. In particular, this week, help from [personal profile] pocketnaomi putting up four bookcases in the living room.
  • Finding some beloved books and a few other things, in the process of unpacking. In particular, some songs I wrote at Carleton, and sheet music -- with chords -- for a song of N's that we'd both forgotten the tune for. It might have been performed once.
  • Kids who remember my birthday, including an hour-long video call from my daughter E. (Still waiting to see if I get anything from R on top of the "in case I forget" email they sent a couple of days ago.)
  • Support groups. It's nice to be among people who "get it". Different "it" in different groups -- widowhood in one case, cancer in another. But still.

River: Mom

2023-12-30 05:07 pm
mdlbear: (river)

So... the day before yesterday was Mom's birthday -- she would have been 103 years old. (In fact, she died in 2020, a couple of months shy of her hundredth. If I'd been thinking, I would have mentioned something in Thursday's gratitude post. I've always felt grateful to my parents, and more abstractly grateful for them -- for having had the good fortune to have been born into a particularly good family.

Better parents than Colleen and I turned out to have been, anyway. I miss them.

Note: this was originally written yesterday; posting failed due to carelessness on my part. Anyway, here it is.

mdlbear: (river)

Today is Colleen's birthday, the second since she died. She would have been 71 years old.

Our birthdays are three days apart, and several other friends also had birthdays in March. (Not to mention our daughter, E.) When we were living in San Jose, we'd celebrate with a huge open-house/potluck party. We called it the "It's Green" party because Colleen's birthday is the day before Saint Patrick's Day. We'd provide corned beef and cabbage, and a case of Green Rooster beer. Colleen never managed to rebuild her social circle in Seattle, so birthday parties have been low-key family things.

My birthday was Monday, but there was so much going on that we decided to push the celebration out to today. Makes things kind of weird, and bitter-sweet.

mdlbear: (river)

... another trip around the sun without Colleen to share it with. But that's what happens when you get old, I guess. It still beats the alternative.

I was pleased, if rather bemused, to see a long string of birthday wishes in my FB feed; if you posted one of them, thank you. I mostly avoid the Face Place except for a small number of groups, and following up the occasional email notification.

I don't think I have a whole lot more to say, and as Tom Lehrer didn't exactly say, if you don't have anything to say, "the very least you can do is to shut up!" So I'll do that.

mdlbear: (rose)

Today is Colleen's seventieth birthday. Unfortunately she can't here to celebrate it with me, but knowing her she would have insisted that I go out and celebrate anyway. I'm not going anywhere, but at least I can lift a glass of gin in her honor -- that will have to do. Somewhere, she'll be having hers with tonic and a large slice of lemon.

mdlbear: blue fractal bear with text "since 2002" (Default)

Today is my 75th birthday. I'm expecting a video call with my kids this evening. Somehow I appear to have gotten old without noticing. My youngest turns 30 in a couple of weeks, which is even more mind-boggling. (They say that if you haven't grown up by the time you get to 60 you don't have to.)

Among the links, from Friday, here's a video of Ukrainian farmers hauling away Russian tanks to the tune of a Russian children's song called "The Blue Tractor". (With a tip of the hat to siderea.) Lots of good links this week. The second one on Tuesday is heavy going.

Notes & links, as usual )

mdlbear: (river)

Today is my 74th birthday. Did you know that the combination of birth date, gender, and zip code is unique for about 80% of people in the US?

This is my first birthday as an orphan. Feels a bit weird. I don't feel particularly old, though. (My body occasionally disagrees with me on that point.)

They say that if you haven't grown up by the time you're 60, you don't have to. So I won't.

River: 73

2020-03-13 10:35 am
mdlbear: (river)

I'm 73 years old today. In the middle of a pandemic that disproportionally kills older people, in a country with a totally broken public health system.

We'd been planning a family birthday party for this weekend; if it happens at all it'll be via Zoom or Hangouts.

Doom destruction and despair People dying everywhere Happy birthday! Happy birthday! -- sing two verses while washing your hands

Going to stop here before I make myself more depressed.

72

2019-03-13 01:50 pm
mdlbear: (river)

I'm 72 years old today. 72 is a multiple of twelve, so it is, once again, the Year of the Pig. (However, it's a year of the Earth Pig; I was born in a year of the Fire Pig, for what that's worth.) It's also the year of my 50th college reunion, for what that's worth.

72 is also 23×32, the atomic number of hafnium, and the traditional value for room temperature in degrees Fahrenheit.

I feel as though I ought to have something profound to say, but viewing the world as I am through filters of depression and anxiety, that's a bit difficult. But there was a robin on the grass outside my window a moment ago -- that counts for something, I suppose.

mdlbear: Wild turkey hen close-up (turkey)

So today I am 0x44 years old, and thankful for

  • Surviving this long.
  • My family. Especially Mom, this time.
  • A chance to visit New Orleans (for the first time) and see lots of people I hadn't seen for 15 years or more.
  • Beignets and cafe au lait at midnight.
  • Coming home.
mdlbear: blue fractal bear with text "since 2002" (Default)

So today I got a filk circle at Rainbow's End for my birthday. So... that.

  • Friends
  • Family
  • Music
  • 67 years
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... and happy Bastille Day to [livejournal.com profile] ravan!!!! Have a great one!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] caprine!!!! Have a great one!!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] sdorn!!!! Have a great one!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] anach!!!! Have a great one!!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] paltergo!!!! Have a great one!

And a happy belated birthday to anyone I missed over the last week.
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... to [livejournal.com profile] gmcdavid!!!! Have a great one!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] min0taur!!!! Have a great one!!!
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... to [livejournal.com profile] patoadam!!!! Have a great one!!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] marypcb!!!! Have a great one!!!
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... to [livejournal.com profile] tfabris!!!! Have a great one!!!
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...to [livejournal.com profile] ranch101!!!! Have a great one!!!
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... to my nephew [livejournal.com profile] asavitzk!!!! Have a great one!!!
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... to [livejournal.com profile] ohiblather and [livejournal.com profile] mr_kurt!!!! Have a great one!!!
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... to my Younger Daughter, [livejournal.com profile] super_star_girl!!!!!! Have a great one!!!

It's going to be weird not having a teenager any more.
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...to [livejournal.com profile] janmagic!!!! Have a great one!!!
mdlbear: blue fractal bear with text "since 2002" (Default)

Hmm. OK, I guess. My time at work was mostly spent on a combination of triage and archiving for my files. Including figuring out which parts are open source, and so can be put up as part of my portfolio.

I also brought home the Mac Mini and an enormous (160x1200 20" Dell) monitor that I may decide to take back on Monday because it's just too huge and power-hungry. It has a 20" usable area, but at least a 2-inch-wide bezel around it, making it about 25" overall. I also have a 1920x1200 monitor that's about half the weight, and not much bigger overall. That one's a keeper.

We went out to Red Lobster for Colleen's birthday dinner. Yum. The RL is in the same shopping center as a Ross; I picked up three assorted shirts, two with colors that should go well with my new silk sport coats.

I had a couple of painful twinges in my left side. Possibly a gallstone or kidney stone. Seems to be gone for the moment, but I don't trust my body any farther than I can throw it. Or something like that.

raw notes )
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...to my lovely wife [livejournal.com profile] flower_cat!!!!!!! Have a great one, love!!!!
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... to [livejournal.com profile] morganhillchris and, um...

Who's this [livejournal.com profile] mdlbear person anyway, and what is he doing on my friends list? Oh. Right.
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... to [livejournal.com profile] whereskoi!!!! Have a great one!!!

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