Done yesterday (20110824 We)

[mdlbear]

0824 We
  * up 6:35; W=197.8; drugs, nose, teeth, hair
  . work on River: values-and-goals
  * Colleen: humira
  * Bring car in to Frontier Ford to get headlight worked on
    Another $500 for a headlight bucket.  There's some body damage, too, which
    may keep it from seating properly.  Available tomorrow.  We'll see.
  * more work on River: values-and-goals during lunch
  & 1:25pm: (try to) print what I have; still a WIP.
    printer failing, so put it on tablet instead.
  % sleepy during the 2pm meeting
  * 5pm: Avoid Avoiding
    A woman I don't know sat down across from me in the waiting room and asked
    if I could help her like herself more.  I tried, suggesting "be a friend
    to yourself".  Is Middle-Sized Bear-ness that noticable?
  : very small crowd tonight
  @ Do You Suffer From Decision Fatigue? - NYTimes.com (gmcdavid)
  * showed off the eQuill's pen-tracking speed.
  * transcode practice session recording
  * bed ~11:30

An interesting day. I took the van back to the Ford dealer to have the dead headlight (which they'd missed last week at the 60K-mile service) replaced, and showed how the assembly (they called it a "headlight bucket") appeared to be loose, as Callie noticed over the weekend.

It came right out. Not attached at all. The bulb wasn't burned out -- the leads were broken off at the connector.

When they called back, they said a new bucket would be a little under $500 with the 15% discount for my trouble. And that there had been some body damage in that area. WTF? We never had any body damage on the right front... Of course, the dealer we bought the van from (used) is no longer in business, and that was over 5 years ago in any case.

So... grump.

I spent much of my lunch hour (and some time in the morning) continuing to work on the values and goal-setting section of The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook; I definitely want to do more writing of that sort.

While waiting for my "Avoid Avoiding" group to start, a woman I didn't know sat down across from me in the waiting room and asked if she could tell me her problem. "I don't like myself much," she said. "Can you tell me how to like myself more?" WTF? Does my Middle-Sized Bear aspect really show that much? Weird.

After the usual disclaimer, I told her she should be a friend to herself. Treat herself like a friend, talk to herself the way a friend would. Encourage herself and praise herself for her accomplishments. Told her about How to Be Your Own Best Friend, which I read years ago. I hope it helped. I think it did.

So... interesting. Not all in the Chinese sense, but...

Only one link, to NYTimes.com on decision fatigue. So will-power is proportional to your brain's glucose level, and making decisions uses energy and lowers it. Helps explain why dieting is so hard, doesn't it?

Comments

[judifilksign.livejournal.com]

I wonder about the decisons always causing fatigue, though. I know a lot of women who get totally energized about making all sorts of design decisions between paint chips, fabric swatches and decor, or making color choices for a quilt, and businessmen who pride themselves on the many decisions they make during a day.

Would window shopping, wanting things you can't have have an effect?

[mdlbear]

Less so, apparently. It's the act of actually deciding -- putting something in the shopping cart and leaving something else behind -- that does it.