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Phoebe Prince, South Hadley High School's 'new girl,' driven to suicide by teenage cyber bullies Via a chain starting with Megan Kelley Hall, through seanan_mcguire to admnaismith.

The Daily News headline is misleading: there was physical bullying, too. And I don't like its tone. This one from Slate is better. There are too many to list, or even to look through. Some of the comments are harrowing.

Didn't we learn from Columbine? Evidently not. Most victims are like Phoebe -- they take it out on themselves.

I didn't get physically bullied, as far as I can remember. It was all verbal -- they called it "teasing". And luckily there were other geeks in my junior high and high school -- we called ourselves the Chess and Bridge Club and holed up in the Latin teacher's classroom before school started. Thank goodness, too, for tracking -- we mostly had our classes with the other geeks. Unlike some people whose stories I've seen, my parents never took the bullies' side, but they didn't have much advice for me, either.

The scars are still there, when I think to look for them. Mostly I never thought about them, which is probably the biggest scar of all. I still don't know where they all are.

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Back in Junior High I was fascinated by the Civil War, in particular, and other aspects of history. I read a lot of biographies, too, though mostly of doctors and scientists rather than great leaders.

About half an hour ago I remembered the name of the High School history teacher who ruined the subject for me: Mrs. Ryan. History in her class became a matter of dates and events, of having the right number of references for your term paper, and the right number of footnotes per page, and every comma and colon in the right place in the bibliography. I hated it, and I hated her, and I still do.

From time to time I still read about the history of science and technology, and I still read biographies. But I'm no longer interested in the events and what people do in their lives. I'm interested in what and how they think -- their ideas, and how their minds work. If the events of the world become interesting at all, it's because of how they affect peoples' thinking, not the other way around. That's just a side-effect. I'm interested in mathematics, philosophies, systems of thought in general. It can be a fascinating thing, how those influence events out in the world, but it's not the important thing.

I suppose I have to thank Mrs. Ryan now, in a back-handed way, for helping to show me how unimportant dates and events are compared with what goes on in people's heads.

(0328) I think that what fascinated me most about the Civil War histories that I read was, not the politics or the specific events, but the descriptions of famous battles. The strategy and tactics of the war, not the politics.

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As of the end of last week, we were fully expecting our Younger Daughter to be repeating 8th grade: her last report card had two F's and three D's, and her teachers assured us that there was no way she could get out of the hole.

That was before she apparently aced several of her finals. She probably won't get to keep her transfer to the San Jose district, but at least she'll be going to High School. We've promised her sushi, the usual reward for good grades, in spite of having gone out once this week to reward the [livejournal.com profile] chaoswolf for a successful midterm.

We're going to have to do a lot of work on attitude and study skills over the summer, but I'm awfully proud of my [livejournal.com profile] super_star_girl right now.

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Party at our house next Saturday. The usual potluck bash. Filking is highly probable.

We're going to be at Westercon in San Diego, July 1-4. We'll be spending an additional day or two in the area, since it's impossible to visit San Diego and not go to the Zoo.

I'm going to be in Portland for OSCON, the O'Reilly Open Source Convention, from Tuesday, July 25 to Saturday, July 29. I'll try to arrive sometime in the early afternoon Tuesday, and leave Saturday afternoon or evening (I'd stay all day Saturday, but we have Lamplighters tickets for Sunday). The keynote is Tuesday evening and the last bit of programming ends just after noon on Friday. (Waves to [livejournal.com profile] cflute and [livejournal.com profile] randwolf.)

... and we'll be going to Worldcon August 23-27 in Los Angeles.

Interesting how things work out this year. The Younger Daughter is changing schools and school districts (long story -- I'll get to it in another post). In the San Jose district, she would have had summer school starting July 5th, and started high school the week before Worldcon. Now, she re-starts 8th grade (in a district that apparently gives a damn -- this is not a bad thing) the week after Labor Day. School will get out in the middle of July next year, which would normally destroy our travel plans for Westercon, but Westercon is in San Jose next year. Travel time about 10 minutes.

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